Remembering 18 Years Post 9/11 – Are We Living With Purpose?

September 11, 2019

Remembering 18 Years Post 9/11 – Are We Living With Purpose?   6,570 days, 157,680 hours, 9,460,800 minutes = 18 years!   While we reflect on Sept. 11, 2001, I’m pulled towards thinking about how it seems like a blink of an eye – until I look at those numbers!   I think about how I felt and what I saw in the days and months after this tragedy. The emotions. The actions.   Gratitude. Kindness. Sacrifice. Service. Pride. Purpose.   Purpose lights up for me because something awoke in me in the days after 9/11. I was determined to live differently, work differently, connect differently – with intention and purpose!   Maybe you felt something similar?   Admittedly, that lasted all of 3 months before I was back into my old habits and lifestyle.   Now, 18 years later, (what???) I can’t believe how quickly the years have rolled by – again, until I look at those numbers!   As I think about the lives lost and the dreams snuffed out on that September morning, I also recognize the reality of our finite time on this earth.   I want to honor those legacies through my daily and intentional actions. Through gratitude. Through sacrifice. Through kindness. Through purpose.   Will you join me? Please click here to watch this message on my YouTube Channel!  

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How to Break Out of the ‘Either, Or’ Decision Trap

August 25, 2019

How to Break Out of the ‘Either, Or’ Decision Trap Have you ever gotten caught in the ‘Either, Or’ Trap when making a decision? I was recently talking with a friend who was trying to think through a career transition and was contemplating some pivots of things she could do.  The conversation cadence went something like this, “You know, I have a great opportunity with company x, so I could either move forward with them or pursue some speaking gigs.” “I also have interest from company y and have been asked to do some coaching and mentoring.  So, I could work with company y, or really dig into the coaching and mentoring.” It’s easy to fall into that ‘Either, Or’ trap when we are thinking through life and career options since it’s been a decision-making process we’ve been trained into for many years! Think back over your life when people would tell you that, “you can do either this, or you can do that.” Or, “you can be either this, or you can be that.” Make your choice! Yeah, I remember plenty of those throughout my life! But, does that have to be the case with our decisions? I encouraged my friend to think about her decisions through a different lens.  What if the answer you are looking for didn’t have to be ‘either, or’, but could be ‘and’? She said, “I never thought of it like that.  This completely flipped the way I can look at these decisions!” 3 Key Tips to Embrace Your AND: Look Around You: Observe others in your life who are creating multiple streams of impact.  You’ll probably notice that they have a passion for something, unique talents and skills, and there is a marketplace where people are willing to pay them for the work they are doing (we aren’t talking about you finding another hobby!).  Talk with them and learn how they went about building this multi-faceted life.  You can learn a lot from them as well as get inspired to really connect with your unique skills and talents! Capacity & Systems: Once you speak with these people, you’ll probably notice that they have identified how much they can do in each area (i.e. capacity).  It’s about understanding your capacity and having the right organizational systems in place to do great work. Start to outline the time you could allot to this work and the systems you would need to put into place. Scale & Patience: It would be foolish to believe that we could do everything 100% right out of the gates.  The reality is that we need to start methodically.  I would recommend devoting the majority of your time to the area of work that is generating and delivering significant and/or stable cashflow.  Then begin carving out time for your ‘and’ to begin working on your craft, product, or content.  As this begins to gain traction, you can use your systems (refer to point No. 2 above) to do more, create more, and scale up your work. This will take both patience and consistency! How would your life look if you used […]

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