Shift Your Life – Mindset Monday Interview
Shift Your Life If you have a dream, if you have a vision of who you could be and what you are truly here to do, then you have to listen to this episode of Mindset Monday with host Denise Zack! I get deep into my journey from a highly successful executive in professional motorsports to a professional speaker, coach, and author. In this episode, I share a ton of thoughts on my experience with emotion, let downs, and self actualization! Some of the key stories include:– How my wife and I prepared for this life-changing pivot – Why July 8, 2006 was my day of ‘giving up’ and the seed it planted for what I am doing today – How people who said they would be there for me didn’t show up and that forced my focus to be only on today; not some date down the road – The words from my 14-yr-old daughter on the reality of hard work that blew my mind (and still does!) – Recognition that we all have a Soul Mission to go after while we are living NOT sleepwalking! My story is one of self development, self healing, and self actualization to living an intentional life of impact and purpose. Please check out the episode on my YouTube channel here Learn more about my journey here
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How To Drive More Opportunities in 2020
How To Drive More Opportunities in 2020 Looking for a way to create more opportunities in your life in 2020? Building and strengthening your reputation is a simple secret to doing that! If you aren’t, you are missing out on one of THE best opportunity drivers in your life! Relationships are a foundational piece of building your reputation (and opportunities)! But are we being intentional with how we are authentically building and nurturing those relationships? Or, do we tell ourselves that we, or they, are busy and we’ll get to it soon? Here’s my challenge to you for 2020 – I challenge you to make 156 reconnects in your network this year! Sound impossible? It’s not. I promise! Here are the simple steps: 1. Carve out 90 minutes a week – whether that’s 90 minutes in one day or 30 minutes three times a week. 2. Make a list of the people in your network that you haven’t connected with in a while. 3. Make the calls!! Make three phone calls to people in your network each week and you will have made 156 reconnects over a 52-week period. This is your chance to ‘check-in’ and ‘catch up’ with those people in your life to see how they are doing? What are they up to? How is work? Maybe you even offer help or encouragement. Don’t think that will drive opportunities? Don’t think that will strengthen your reputation? If you own a business, this is also an opportunity for you. I have a very dear friend who shuts down his office at Noon every Friday. Now, his team doesn’t leave. They actually spend the balance of the day making calls to people in their network – old colleagues, old clients, old friends. Over time, he started tracking when he was generating the most new business for his agency. When do you think that was? You guessed it – on Fridays between 12-5! So give it a try and see how this enriches your life and blows open the doors of opportunity! Want to watch this message? Click here to watch a short video on my YouTube channel. Be intentional … be deliberate … drive your reputation forward this year to experience opportunities you never knew existed! Cheers to 2020 and your success! Keep digging!
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Do People Know Your Intention?
Do people know your intention? I read once that trust is comprised of two elements – character and competence. Knowing the character of an individual will certainly determine if they are trustworthy. Do they act with integrity or kindness? Just as well, it’s imperative to know that the person has the competence, the ability, to get the job done. That got me thinking about a third element that I don’t hear much about in leadership conversations. How often do we focus on intention? I really believe this is one of the most fundamental elements of leadership and a building block for trust and reputation and yet, how often do we intentionally focus on intention (see what I did there?)? To be clear, I’m not speaking of being intentional in behavior or starting your day by setting your intentions – which are very important, by the way – rather, I’m speaking about your team, customers, or stakeholders knowing the true intention behind your actions. Are your intentions externally focused on your team’s mission, goals, values, and growth opportunities? Or, are they internally driven for your gain? If people don’t know your intention, it leaves them to wonder and in those spaces of speculation, trust, reputation, and results can diminish because rarely are people thinking of positive intentions. Oh, you say that sounds so negative, Mike! According to a Harvard Business Review study, 58% of employees would trust a stranger over their boss! Think that’s a problem with intention? Jim Meehan, a British psychologist, once wrote that to gain trust with people you need to let them know two things: I mean you no harm I seek your greatest good As leaders, isn’t that our true goal with building trust, which then will lead to results? Stop leaving your intention to question! It’s a waste of everyone’s time and energy – two resources we never have enough of! So, how do you let people know your intention? It starts with how you show up and engage based upon your values. Are you values grounded in your personal belief? The team’s mission? The company’s vision? If you are living into these values on a consistent basis, then people will know your intention by what they see. Complement your actions by also verbally telling your team your intentions – for them, for the project, for the client. Transparency is a vital piece of trust and leadership. If you are walking the walk, then being transparent won’t be an issue! Give it some thought. How do you ensure people know your intention? To watch a video on this message, please visit my YouTube page here!
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