What’s the Difference Between Ignorance & Apathy?
I was recently at my son’s New Student Orientation day at Appalachian State University in Boone, NC, and one administrator was telling the parents about how she works with new students to shift their mindsets from high school to college.
One way to do this, she said, was to ask the students what the difference was between ignorance and apathy. She said she got an interesting response from a student one time that went like this, “I don’t know and I don’t care!”
First off, what a priceless answer, but after the room of parents composed itself, I really started to think about that question and what came to life for me when I reflected on the answer and its mindset.
For me, as I thought about the question, answer, and subsequent mindset, I began to think about the word complacency!
I can’t afford to be complacent in my work as I build my practice or the value I strive to deliver to those in my life. In order for me to create, evolve, and make an impact, I cannot be complacent. I cannot sit back and be satisfied, nor can I just sit and wait for opportunities to just show up.
Years ago, that mindset would have scared me because it meant that I was always on and couldn’t celebrate or be happy. And, for a long period in my own life, I was that person. I feared that if I showed any sign of happiness or contentment for my work that I would fall behind.
I learned that is not a healthy way to live or work towards my goals (not for myself or the people around me!).
I’ve learned that I can chill, that I can celebrate wins, and be happy – and, most importantly, that I won’t lose my edge to be competitive, to create value, and drive forward!
But, getting back to complacency … I’ve written that word on an index card as a visual anchor to keep me focused on making that call … sending that email … creating that piece of content in order to keep moving towards my goals – and, yes, still celebrating along the way!
I’d love to know what word pops into your head when you think about this! Please share it in the post and let’s continue to motivate each other … if you’d like to see this video message, please click here and enjoy!
Cheers to you!